Raising Rocks by K.M. Churchill

Even half asleep, my husband was quicker than me. He was out of bed and out the door before I’d put on my glasses, pulled a cardigan over my flannel nightgown and pushed my feet into wellies. Outside, the sun was not yet above the headlands, the morning dreadfully silent. No barking dogs, no bleating sheep. Not even the familiar caw of blackbirds. I scanned the garden. Hedges, flowerpots, pale sky, picket fence. Already a strong sharp wind blowing off Glandore Bay, which stung my cheeks like the slap I deserved—what kind of mother doesn’t realize her toddler has escaped?

And, although I probably shouldn’t have, for one long panicked minute I stood listening. It was a habit of mine, listening, probably the result of severe myopia; I usually heard things long before I saw them. So, rather than rushing off like his father to see if I could find my child before he got into trouble, instead—foolishly perhaps—I did what I always do when he was out of sight in another room; I stopped to listen for him.

When I was a girl I could tell, just by listening, who was where at any given moment. My father’s step was light, spritely as he went about fixing things on weekends. On weekdays his polished shoes struck hard and quick across the floors and out the door. My mother moved softly, but heavily, as though she were carrying a great weight.

My older brothers, redheaded twins, were harder to hear. They moved as one. Tiptoeing down the hall, pushing open windows, popping out screens, climbing through, then dropping silently to the ground and scampering off. My younger sister was easier. When she wasn’t asking questions no one could answer, she was outside, running, falling, skinning her knees, crying, and my mother always came running. If I could hear my sister, and I usually could, I knew my mother would not be far off. She was like that my mother; always there when you needed her even if you didn't know you would.

But in the stillness of our West Cork garden in February, I could hear nothing. The nothing engulfed me. I pushed up against it, leaning into its vastness, and listened harder. This must be what people heard just before a catastrophic storm, I thought, the ominous roar of silence portending nothing and everything at once.

My husband’s voice startled me. Over lichen slate rooftops I could hear him, sing-songing our son’s name, Josh-wah! The way you might call a child to dinner, using a tone laden with promises of good things to come. I listened for a reply—one heartbeat, two heartbeats, three… When there was none, I added my own harmony, Jo-shu-ah!

I could have climbed up through the garden to check the grassy road running between pastures behind the house. Had I done that, I would have come down into the village closer to the Rowing Club. But I didn’t. I took the back stairs, jumping down them two at a time until I reached the alleyway where the air was even colder, a hard cold that lurked in the ravines between old Irish houses. Stone cold, I thought and dove into it; in the dank shadows it seemed as though I were not in Ireland anymore but running down the corridor of a catacomb, all the way until I reached Main Street.


Outside Casey’s cheerful yellow pub, the benches, which usually held an old man or two, were empty. I could see my husband, pushing a stroller that held our other toddler. He was weaving in and out of parked cars, searching for our youngest, who was so small he could easily be overlooked behind one. I went in the opposite direction, toward Keelbeg Pier. Everything was still but for the sound of our voices echoing off pastel houses and furrowed hillsides, calling our son’s name in tandem.

Soon I could hear only my own voice, no longer ricocheting off the buildings but drifting out over the bay where the wind carried it away.


Edging the seafront, a fieldstone wall, about thigh-high, bordered the walking path. Along top of it, sharp stones had been embedded at spiky angles. A brackish smell blew off the bay; the tide was out—thank God—though that meant the drop beyond the wall would be twenty feet or more to the slick seabed below. I felt certain he could not have clambered over it, but I took a deep breath and leaned over the parapet to look anyway.

My eyesight had never been good. There are fading pictures of me, not much older than Joshua, wearing little round glasses that wrapped around my ears. It seems to me that it was because I had such poor eyesight that I realized there could be more than one version of reality: there were the sharp, crisp forms that other people saw and recognized, then there were the soft edged shades of things that I could see; things that were not truly themselves until I had touched, listened to, or leaned in so closely to look at them that all my senses engaged at once.

My babies too I would encounter this way. Knowing Joshua first by the sound of his cry, by the feel of his unfathomably soft skin, by his warm, musky scent when I nuzzled him. My fingers searching every inch of him: his smooth, taut belly; his delicate moon shell ears; his surprisingly strong fingers. I’d read somewhere that to really touch someone is to love them. I believe that. Later, when I leaned in close to gaze deep into his dark blue eyes, I’d wonder if we each saw the same thing – someone with soft shifting edges, both known and unknowable.

Far below me, the seabed was vacant, but for a couple small brown crabs scuttling over sea whistle and bladderwrack. I breathed in the mineral reek of the inlet with relief and panic – where is he? My heart pounded against my ribs, as though railing against the injustice of its imprisonment, as though trying to break free. How could I have slept through the sound of him opening the door? Up ahead, the road to the pier curled out of sight. Out on the bay, a halyard on a moored boat clanged against its mast, like a church bell tolling. Ding. Ding. Ding.


I recalled a story my mother told me about how she’d been traveling with my father on a business trip in Arizona, while my grandmother looked after us kids at home. One night, deep in the desert, she had a dream about my sister being lost. She woke and telephoned home. My sister had been missing but my Grandmother found her, safe and sound. My mother had been 2,000 miles across the country when she’d sensed that something had happened. I’d been asleep in the next room, and I’d sensed nothing.


The whine of a boat engine cut the morning in half but it was barely a speck on the horizon. I resisted the urge to wave my arms over my head yelling, “Help! Help!” He’s all right, he’s all right… I repeated it over and over to myself, like a prayer, hoping to banish the hideous voice that was building a nest at the base of my skull, whispering with foul breath in my ears. You’re too late, the voice said. Something has probably already happened to him and no hope, no prayer will undo it.


His name became a shrill squawk leaving my mouth. I tossed it up into the wind as though the name itself— Hebrew meaning “God protects”— might take the shape of a sharp-eyed bird circling high overhead and, spying my little boy, swoop down with a flutter of soft strong wings to carry him back to me.

Once, when the wind shifted and blew up from behind, I thought I heard my husband calling to me, a faraway cadence. I turned hoping to catch a glimpse of him carrying our son safely in his arms. But I saw nothing. You call yourself a mother, the voice sneered. He’ll be dead before you find him and it will be All-Your-Fault. Something in my chest compressed. It hurt. I bent over to catch my breath. When the pain passed, I stood back up and looked harder.

No one said it, but everyone knew it was true; I was wholly unsuited to motherhood. Awkward, short-tempered, impatient, I had no instinct for it. My folly became apparent only after my first son was born, a bright-eyed baby that would not sleep. I had not expected this. Soothe, feed, change, repeat. Motherhood was, I’d decided, the useless, repetitive Sisyphean task I deserved; fair retribution for having had the hubris—against my better judgment—to have attempted it in the first place.

One dark morning hour, when my son would not be soothed, it dawned on me that even Sisyphus was allowed a respite, a brief moment, to revel in his accomplishment before his boulder rolled back down the mountain. When a second baby followed the first, I began envying him.

Josh-u-ah! I bellowed. But nothing moved. Only thin stray clouds drifting overhead. Then, on the doorstep of the Myross Rowing Club, I saw something I hadn’t noticed before, a small blue bundle. It wriggled. Then looked up. I could just make out Joshua’s pale round baby face peeking up from where it must have been resting on his pajama-clad knees. When he saw me looking at him, he tucked his head, folding himself into himself, as though he were hiding.

Time slowed. I was no longer in my body but floating somewhere above it, and from that height, I could see our house in the village, the intersection of the roads, the wide opening in the seawall behind the Rowing Club, the hidden driveway beside it. Without taking my eyes from my son, I was able to judge the distance between us. I saw where he might go and how I might head him off. I calculated how quickly I could reach him and how fast he could run. I saw all of this in a split second. Then I lifted my nightgown above my knees and ran, full tilt, back down the hill.

With each pounding step closer to my toddler—who sat, hugging his knees, probably believing that if he couldn’t see me, I couldn’t see him— my whole self hummed; vibrating like a bell after the clear ringing fades and the sound is taken up by flowers singing. Finally, I had instinctively done something a good mother would do: I had found my missing son.

When I reached the clubhouse, Joshua was still tucked into the doorway. I swooped down to gather him up into my arms. But he did not want to come. No he did not. “Noooooooo!” He screamed, squirming to get away. “Go to beach! To Beeeeeeeeeeeach!” He crossed his arms tight and glared at me and thrust a pudgy, pointing forefinger toward the stony shoreline. “BEACH!”

I smiled down at the angry toddler before me. Of course, had I really thought bringing my recovered son back home would be that easy? Yes, yes I had. But it didn’t matter because I’d done it! I’d reached the mountaintop and was standing there victorious—an absurd heroine in my rubber wellies, glasses askew, hands on hips and a bitter wind billowing up my nightgown. And watching my little ball of fury roll back down the mountain I accepted that it would always be so. Only this time, like Sisyphus himself, I paused to survey the vast underworld of motherhood from on high; enjoying the fruits of my labor—if only for a moment—and that was enough. My son was safe, and I began my slow descent back down the mountain of motherhood with my heart full of joy; all was well. I would begin again.

K.M. Churchill won the 2016 Solas Gold Award for Women’s Travel Writing. Her work has appeared in Harvard University’s Charles River Review, literary travel journals, and The Best Travel Writing: True stories from around the world. She currently lives with her family on the seacoast in New Hampshire, where she is working on her food/travel memoir, Salmon Cakes and Saints: Three years, two toddlers and one award-winning restaurant in Ireland. You can read more about her Irish misadventures online at: www.kmchurchill.com

Issue Contents

Issue 7

From the Editor

Back and Forth

He was asleep. Arms resting at his sides, legs stretched toward the slats at the end of the crib. Blades of light cut through the blinds reddening tufts of blond as they danced over his head like twinkling embers. His wispy baby hair had grown into a miniature mullet, the ends swooping upward as if styled with a curling iron, the hair at his temples dampened by exhaustion.

There was a Riley shaped patch of sweat on the white sheet below him. As mothers do, I had watched him sleep more times than I could count. Only he wasn’t actually asleep. My eyes stayed fixed on his hair because it was the only part of his body that let me believe he was sleeping...

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